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Lesbian Flirting Tips

Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (2)

After you’ve got green lights from your desired woman, it is time to move from subtle lesbian flirting to major lesbian flirting.

Subtle lesbian flirting was explored in Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (1).

Of course, it isn’t a fixed rule that one needs to move from being subtle to obvious when it comes to flirting. Subtlety, however, plants you like a seed into her mind. If she allows it to grow into a plant with flowers blooming of fantasies, she may even make her advances before you do!

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Major Lesbian Flirting

Invite her to your place.

Give her a very valid reason why she must turn up for the invitation.

For e.g. “ I dreamt of you last night. If you want to know what happened during my dream, you have to come to my place for dinner on Saturday.”

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If she agrees to your invitation, she is ready for your advances.

Pick her up from work.

Walk close to her. If you are standing on her left and her left arm is behind her back, gripping her bag that slings on her right, she is actually withholding the urge to either put her arm around your waist or hold your hand.

What do you do? Walk even closer to her.

Move closer 1    Move closer 2

When you are having dinner, pick up some food for her with your chopsticks. It is a simple act that carries a symbolic meaning, especially to Chinese. One only picks up food for someone he/she cares about.

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Sit close to her. Lean closer.

Sit closer    lean closer 

Tell her that the first time you saw her, you had already wanted to kiss her.

verbal seduction 

If she kisses you and pulls back, tell her you both better get back to eating, if not you’re going to lose control. Anyhow you both know what is going to happen later, better to eat your fill first.

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lose control

Get really close to her and gently brush her hair back a little. Whisper softly into her ear. It is going to turn her switch ON.

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After all that the following is usually inevitable.

bath    Bed  

 Image Source: Butterfly / Hu Die  

Discussion

10 comments for “Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (2)”

  1. If both of us are shy and is watching “butterfly” movie together, can it become the tool of major lesbian flirting? What if either one of us do not wish to jump on the bed right after the first night? :)

    Posted by Nicole | April 10, 2008, 3:24 pm
  2. A particular lesbian movie was indeed a prelude to major lesbian flirting between me and my girlfriend.
    ‘Butterfly’ can indeed become a ‘tool’

    “What if either one of us do not wish to jump on the bed right after the first night?”
    - Did you mean that the first night you had already slept with each other?

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 10, 2008, 3:36 pm
  3. She is inviting me over tomorrow night for dinner at her place and she said she have this movie where we can watch it together but i dont want it to end up in bed ^^ Do u think it’s possible?

    Posted by Nicole | April 10, 2008, 4:27 pm
  4. You don’t have to let it end up in bed if you don’t want to, it is definitely possible.

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 10, 2008, 4:42 pm
  5. Inviting someone over is indeed a major lesbian firting tool. Seriously it was so hard to resist when it was in the same bed and when she kept seducing. But luckily my finger nails are not trimmed, haha, in fact i dont know lesbian have to keep their nails short. I think i would better keep it in “not too short” condition in future. No wonder i had been questioned the first night when we watched ‘Butterly’ together. Hey, it’s a very very GOOD movie! Meaningful.

    Actually there’s another meaningful movie that i want to recommend you (a straight love story), it’s screening in cinema now here in M’sia ‘Definitely, Mabye’. I liked the end of the part when Maya (the daughter) asked a question to her dad (William Hyes) which indirectly reflected my current situation that i think i should stop things that i’m currently into.

    Btw, i hope you may write something about what a new lesbian should pay attention when it comes to dating ;P

    Posted by Nicole | April 13, 2008, 7:25 am
  6. Thanks to ‘Definitely, Maybe’ ^^

    Posted by Nicole | April 13, 2008, 7:30 am
  7. “i dont know lesbian have to keep their nails short.”
    - Nicole, how could you not know?!

    “i hope you may write something about what a new lesbian should pay attention when it comes to dating”
    - Thanks for the suggestion, deeply appreciate it :)

    “Seriously it was so hard to resist when it was in the same bed and when she kept seducing”
    - What did she do? This sounds really juicy. Share!

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 13, 2008, 7:37 am
  8. I have to say I love your column. It made me laugh so loud. So funny. Thanks a lot.
    Talking movies, I’ve just seen Gray Matters. Nice happy movie about a commercial woman in her 30s that comes out.
    Hope to read more of your advices =)
    The movie When night is falling, though it’s a bit old, is quite a good one on seduction.

    Posted by a_lin | April 13, 2008, 8:15 am
  9. ‘I dont know’ because i am new and i am not willing to go to that extend where i must bear the responsibility.

    I know most of the lesbian dont care but i do and she is a nice girl that i dont want to hurt her when i leave this country soon though she already knew.

    After these 2 days, i started to understand the meaning of ‘fling’ and ‘lust’, and of course ‘bastard’ too.
    I knew her for about 2 weeks long only, i have feelings for her but it isnt love that i should say now.

    Despite knowing it’s just lust i accepted her invitation because i wanted to give both of us a chance or to at least wipe off my tears and i’m at the same time fulfilled her affection towards me.

    Posted by Nicole | April 13, 2008, 8:28 am
  10. my apologies, I’m a little lost here.
    The general view is always to keep things simple.
    You should both know the ‘framework’ of your relationship, be it a fling or a courtship leading to possible relationship.

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 13, 2008, 9:25 am

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