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Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (1)

How do you shift another woman’s perspective of you from one of an acquaintance/friend to a possible love interest? 

You tempt her. 

Do it subtly first, gradually turning up the heat 

Compliment her positive traits:

E.g. tell her how gentle she is. Say it with your gentle voice and gentle eyes.

  

Where she is able to see it from her sitting position, give her full view of one side of your exposed neck by turning your head. You have plenty of chances to do this when you are in a restaurant trying to look out for the waiter/waitress.

A lot of people don’t realise this; but the neck is actually quite a tempting piece of skin to bare.

If she gawks at your neck like that, you can turn up the heat by a notch. 

    When eating with her always watch out for any food around her mouth.

This is an excellent opportunity to help her wipe it off with either your fingers or napkin.

I would recommend the napkin though because many girls are very particular about anybody’s fingers touching their faces.

Although it does feel very sexy to have the corner of one’s lips lightly traced by another girl’s fingers, its better not to run the risk of her spending the rest of the evening worrying about potential breakouts on her face.

Also, when wiping her mouth with the napkin, do it gently and perhaps slowly, if not its not going to seduce anyone.      

    

 

Every time she talks about something that she gets emotional about, whether it’s something exciting or tear jerking, grasp her hands. It will make her feel like you want to share her emotions.  

 

You get the green light on grasping her hands when you find her doing that in return and she holds your hands a little longer than usual. 

     

Touch her on her arm whenever you want to tell her something and always maintain eye contact when you do this. 

 

Give her an innocent goodbye kiss on the cheek. It has to be the light and lingering kind.

Make her skin tingle and make the kiss linger in her mind.

This would be considered just a little more suggestive in the Asian context as giving goodbye kisses are not commonly practised among Asian women. 

  

It is important to look out for green lights and red lights during your subtle albeit seductive interaction with her. If you spot many red lights and she looks like she is going through trauma, do respect her space. If you spot green lights, you can graduate from subtle to not-so-subtle.

Moving on to more  smooth lesbian flirting moves  

Image Source: Butterfly / Hu Die 

Discussion

11 comments for “Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (1)”

  1. Did you write it all by yourself? Amazing! ^^

    Posted by Nicole | April 8, 2008, 2:58 pm
  2. Thank you for your kind compliment, Nicole :)
    Right now, girl-magnet only has one writer

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 8, 2008, 3:48 pm
  3. I like your entries. Keep them coming! :)

    xoxo
    Bluegarage

    Posted by Anna | April 8, 2008, 6:19 pm
  4. Hi Anna, thanks for the compliment :)

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 9, 2008, 1:22 am
  5. The images here are from Butterfly, right? I love that movie…

    Posted by Anna | April 9, 2008, 3:09 pm
  6. Yup, it is from Butterfly / Hu Die
    I love that movie too :) What are your other favorites?

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 9, 2008, 3:14 pm
  7. most welcome :)
    i’ve watched The Botanist’s Daughters and i love it.
    I don’t really do reviews. Posts are only focused on parts of the movies that pertain to lesbian attraction, most other parts of the movies are left out.
    I like to use screen captures from movies because pictures together with words illustrate better.

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 10, 2008, 4:51 pm
  8. what will be up next? Any interesting topics? :P

    Posted by Nicole | April 10, 2008, 5:22 pm
  9. Aside from Butterfly, I love these movies as well:

    The Chinese Botanist’s Daughters
    Imagine Me and You
    Antonia’s Line
    When Night Is Falling
    Fingersmith
    The Exterminating Angels

    Posted by Anna | April 11, 2008, 12:45 am
  10. “what will be up next? Any interesting topics? ”
    - plenty to come ;)

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 11, 2008, 4:20 pm
  11. love love love these posts.. please keep it coming.

    i love you you are the best!

    Posted by passionvictim | May 20, 2008, 10:29 am

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