How do you shift another woman’s perspective of you from one of an acquaintance/friend to a possible love interest?Â
You tempt her.Â
Do it subtly first, gradually turning up the heatÂ
Compliment her positive traits:
E.g. tell her how gentle she is. Say it with your gentle voice and gentle eyes.
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Where she is able to see it from her sitting position, give her full view of one side of your exposed neck by turning your head. You have plenty of chances to do this when you are in a restaurant trying to look out for the waiter/waitress.
A lot of people don’t realise this; but the neck is actually quite a tempting piece of skin to bare.
If she gawks at your neck like that, you can turn up the heat by a notch.Â
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When eating with her always watch out for any food around her mouth.
This is an excellent opportunity to help her wipe it off with either your fingers or napkin.
I would recommend the napkin though because many girls are very particular about anybody’s fingers touching their faces.
Although it does feel very sexy to have the corner of one’s lips lightly traced by another girl’s fingers, its better not to run the risk of her spending the rest of the evening worrying about potential breakouts on her face.
Also, when wiping her mouth with the napkin, do it gently and perhaps slowly, if not its not going to seduce anyone.   Â
   
 
Every time she talks about something that she gets emotional about, whether it’s something exciting or tear jerking, grasp her hands. It will make her feel like you want to share her emotions. Â
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You get the green light on grasping her hands when you find her doing that in return and she holds your hands a little longer than usual.Â
   
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Touch her on her arm whenever you want to tell her something and always maintain eye contact when you do this.Â
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Give her an innocent goodbye kiss on the cheek. It has to be the light and lingering kind.
Make her skin tingle and make the kiss linger in her mind.
This would be considered just a little more suggestive in the Asian context as giving goodbye kisses are not commonly practised among Asian women.Â
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It is important to look out for green lights and red lights during your subtle albeit seductive interaction with her. If you spot many red lights and she looks like she is going through trauma, do respect her space. If you spot green lights, you can graduate from subtle to not-so-subtle.
Moving on to more smooth lesbian flirting moves Â
Image Source: Butterfly / Hu DieÂ
Did you write it all by yourself? Amazing! ^^
Thank you for your kind compliment, Nicole
Right now, girl-magnet only has one writer
I like your entries. Keep them coming!
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Hi Anna, thanks for the compliment
The images here are from Butterfly, right? I love that movie…
Yup, it is from Butterfly / Hu Die
What are your other favorites?
I love that movie too
most welcome
i’ve watched The Botanist’s Daughters and i love it.
I don’t really do reviews. Posts are only focused on parts of the movies that pertain to lesbian attraction, most other parts of the movies are left out.
I like to use screen captures from movies because pictures together with words illustrate better.
what will be up next? Any interesting topics?
Aside from Butterfly, I love these movies as well:
The Chinese Botanist’s Daughters
Imagine Me and You
Antonia’s Line
When Night Is Falling
Fingersmith
The Exterminating Angels
“what will be up next? Any interesting topics? ”
- plenty to come
love love love these posts.. please keep it coming.
i love you you are the best!