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Lesbian Flirting Signs

Flirting with an Older Lesbian

If you are wanting to flirt with an older lesbian but you are not sure how to do it, take some cues from Annabelle in Loving Annabelle. Make sure you’re not legally underage though.

You know you like her when you do all sorts of things with your lips when you see her or think of her. 

You bite your lips.

biting lips 

You also touch your lips a lot because you wonder how it feels like if she is touching your lips like that.

Lips Touching 1    Lips Touching 2

Lips Touching 3

You find yourself checking her butt out when she walks past you. She probably knows it because women have invisible eyes on their back. They can feel your gaze even when you are looking at them on the spy.

checking butt out 2     checking butt out 1  

How do you flirt with her without saying a word? Give her the sideway glance with your subtle smile. If you can do it well its quite a come-on.

sideway glance 

Send her flowers when she least expects it. Accompanied with an anonymous message you both have a mutual connection on.

Send her flowers    message 

See if she instinctively guesses its you.

guess 1    guess 2 

Appear at her doorstep uninvited, wearing your sweetest smile so its virtually impossible to turn you away.

uninvited

Whenever there is an opportunity to sit with her, jump on it. 

sit

Inch closer to her and watch how she reacts. 

inch 1    inch 2

inch 3

If you find her:

 (1) fondling her necklace,  

 (2) looking into your eyes intensely even in such close range,

 (3) glancing at your chest,

she could be attracted to you. 

If at the same time, she has created an arm barrier between you and her, she is also feeling a little defensive and is protecting herself from you.

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d3 

Ask to take a look at her necklace so that you have permission to enter her personal space and she can’t put up her arm barrier. However if she places her palms together, she is still feeling defensive and closing her body to you.

If you’re bold enough, take your chance to trace her chest area around her necklace.  

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N3       

When she gives you mixed signals of attraction and defensiveness, it might not be a good time to attempt to kiss her as you face a rejection possibility.

attempt1    attempt2

If you do face a rejection, back off gracefully and give her space.

As long as she doesn’t push you away and/or jump off the couch, don’t be afraid to interact with her again.

back1    back2 

When you see her again, don’t be afraid to look at her like how you used to. 

glance

Ask her out to a place with a relaxed setting. Get to know her and get her to know you. Whenever there is a chance, smile at her and engage her with your eyes.

relaxed 1    relaxed 2

Inch closer to her whenever there is space between both of you, close enough for you to smell her hair.

Touch her on the wrist. 

close1    close2

close3     close 4

And perhaps, like Annabelle’s love interest, after all that flirting, she can’t help herself but finally surrenders herself to you.

final 

Image Source: Loving Annabelle 

Discussion

2 comments for “Flirting with an Older Lesbian”

  1. I think you’re supposed to serenade her with a love song written for her first before she finally surrenders. ;)

    Posted by Chen | April 6, 2008, 11:08 am
  2. Hi Chen :)
    Thanks for the reminder. In “Loving Annabelle”, Annabelle did serenade Simone with a love song before Simone finally kissed her.

    Posted by girl-magnet | April 6, 2008, 1:40 pm

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