As mentioned before, lesbian spotting is an important survival skill to acquire because it helps us to identify our potential partners. How does one spot a lesbian?
Does it take one lesbian to spot another?
Not necessarily.
Once, I turned up for a lesbian party at a local club that claimed to have a waiver of cover charge for lesbians. Unfortunately, the door butch couldn’t scan the lesbian in me and I had to pay my way in. What made it more unfortunate was that […]
How can you tell, by the way another woman looks at you, whether she finds you attractive or not?
Look out for the sparkle in her eyes.
When a woman sees something/someone that piques her interest, her eyes sparkle.
The human eye functions like the camera lens: dilating the pupil to allow more light into the eye; constricting […]
After you’ve got green lights from your desired woman, it is time to move from subtle lesbian flirting to major lesbian flirting.
Subtle lesbian flirting was explored in Smooth Flirting Moves of a Lesbian Temptress (1).
Of course, it isn’t a fixed rule that one needs to move from being subtle to obvious when […]
How do you shift another woman’s perspective of you from one of an acquaintance/friend to a possible love interest?
You tempt her.
Do it subtly first, gradually turning up the heat
Compliment her positive traits:
E.g. tell her how gentle she is. Say it with your gentle voice and gentle eyes.
Where she is able to see it from her […]
What happens when you like an older woman who is shy and doesn’t exactly give out strong enough lesbian flirting signs for you to detect?
Look out for subtle signs that she likes you:
She fondles with her fingers a lot when she sees you. Coupled with a coy expression like that, she really DOES like you.
She cares about […]
If you are wanting to flirt with an older lesbian but you are not sure how to do it, take some cues from Annabelle in Loving Annabelle. Make sure you’re not legally underage though.
You know you like her when you do all sorts of things with your lips when you see her or think […]
I’m alone in a lesbian club waiting for friends.
Wide-eyed girl in black seems to be sending flirting signs to me.
Girl in bob also seems to be sending flirting signs to me. She catches my eye and I smile at her. (Girl in bob).
What are we […]
Recent Comments